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The Root Of Anger - Fear

by kevin03

At the end of the day, fear is usually the fundamental source of
anger and it is more often than not the root of the problem when
you have difficulty managing your anger, when you have issues of
dealing with substance abuse or you are suffering with some kind
of mental illness.

When you eventually discover exactly how to overcome this fear
you will be taking the first steps to gaining control of your
anger, and therefore, the rest of your life. 
       
The use of rational self-talk methods is one of the best known
ways of dealing and coming to terms with fear. If you are the
kind of person who is very negative in thoughts, forever settling
for what will be will be, you will need to adopt a whole new
attitude and do you know why?

It's because in the majority of cases, you can actually do
something to prevent the happenings if you want to and if you
really put your mind to it.        
       
Thinking in a negative way gets you absolutely nowhere and can
often increase the chances of you going over the top and
exploding completely when your anger develops.

When you refuse at any cost to see the positive side of things
you are only showing how shallow in the mind you are and the
constant belief that you are hopeless will ensure that your anger
is allowed to rule you as a person and the associated problems
will never cease to exist.

For example, you have a few beers in a bar on a night out with
some friend, and then you get in your car to drive home and
during the journey you get pulled over by the police.  In this
instance, you are the one that has set yourself up to fail.  Why
didn't you get a cab back or ask someone who had not been
drinking alcohol to drive you home?

The best and only way forward is to change what you are able to
change and leave alone what you cannot do anything about.  Take
each day as it comes.  There really is no point in allowing
eruptions of anger to take place for something that happened last
week or last month.  It has been and gone and you cannot do
anything about it so let it go and concentrate on the next twenty
four hours. 
       
Learning to appreciate what you already have and what you do is
much more important than stressing yourself about things which
are out of your control. Each and every one of us has difficult
decisions to make in life and this may sometimes also involve
solving a problem as we go along.  As long as you take the
necessary steps the world will not fall apart so make sure you
evaluate the problem with care.
       
Work out exactly what the problem involves, pull out all the
stops in looking at the resources you have available to deal with
the problem and then get on with it straight away.  If you put it
off it will only make matters worse.  When the outcome is
successful, give yourself a well earned pat on the back as a
reward.  
             
If the problem is not solved, this does not automatically make
your life unlivable.  It simply means the problem has to be
further addressed.   Life in general is full of ups and downs and
we all have to deal with our share of problems.

Try not to let your emotions get the better of you by allowing
your anger to take over.  Don't forget, although fear is the root
of anger and once mastered you will know you are on your way to
victory, it is also healthy when used in a sensible manner. 
Sensible being the operative word.

Kevin Sinclair is the publisher and editor of <a
href="http://www.my-personal-growth.com">My-Personal-Growth.com</a>,
a site that provides information and articles for self
improvement and personal growth and development.

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